Is it Time for Some Emotional “Spring Cleaning”?
Hey there Gorgeous!
It’s almost Spring and as I pack for Maui I’m thinking about all the “spring cleaning” I’d like to do once I return to LA.
I’m going to do a deep clean of my bathroom and kitchen, all the floors, and sweep out any cobwebs.
I’m also going to go through my closet and assess what needs to stay and what needs to go.
If I haven’t worn it in over year, I’m either going to consign it or donate it to Goodwill.
Items that no longer fit because I’ve lost a bit of weight since I moved will be separated and brought to the tailor so that I can wear them again.
I’m also a big believer in “emotional spring cleaning” - identifying and letting go of the limiting beliefs, energetic blocks, situations, and even people that are no longer serving you.
When it comes to love, sex, and relationships, one of my biggest limiting beliefs was that I wasn’t “good enough” to deserve to be happy.
I thought that I needed to get rid of all my credit card debt, get a master’s degree, and be making a million dollars a year before I was “allowed” be happy.
Living this way was pretty miserable, but when you think you deserve to be unhappy because you don’t “measure up”, it’s a hard cycle to break free from.
Ultimately, however, as the universe kept trying to teach me the same lesson over and over again, I relented.
I gave up not only because I was exhausted, but I deep down I knew that constantly beating myself up for not being perfect was no way to live (also, I needed to reach that level of utter fatigue in order to face the truth about how I was treating myself).
There had to be a better way and I was determined to find it.
Through working with a coach and my own “spiritual awakening”, I found that the answer to everything was “self-love”. It is the source of all transformation. And, I didn’t need anyone else’s permission to love myself.
Without it, you are unable to do the healing work necessary to live out your divine, unique, creative purpose. In other words, love and happiness is our natural state, but we must remove the blocks inside of ourselves that keep us from it. This can be painful but self-love/compassion is the most powerful resource to help us through this process.
Also, when you truly love yourself, you become a magnet to others who are willing, able, and OUTRAGEOUSLY HAPPY to love you.
I would not be in the amazingly loving committed partnership that I’m in now if I had not done this emotional “spring cleaning.”
If you’re serious about manifesting your dream relationship this year and think you need to do some “spring cleaning”, book a FREE Discovery Session with me here. I’m here to support you!
Have a beautiful day and I look forward to hearing from you soon!
All my love and gratitude,
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