How to Be a ‘Love Magnet’ in the Midst of Holiday Madness

Can you believe that the holiday season is already upon and we’re celebrating US Thanksgiving next week? It’s amazing how fast this year has gone by!

I’ll be spending Thanksgiving and Christmas on the West coast with Loren and his family. After that I’ll be heading to the DC area to connect with my family and catch up with old friends. I’m really looking forward to it!

Before things get too crazy for you with holiday shopping, entertaining family and friends, and bumper-to-bumper traffic, I wanted to remind you that while 2017 is almost over, it’s not too late for you to experience the joy and happiness in love, sex, and relationships that you’ve been craving.

If you’re a big ball of stress and resentment over the next two months, running around trying to make other people happy, you’re not going to be in energetic alignment to meet someone.

If I had to pick one piece of advice to give you to not just survive the holiday season, but actually THRIVE, it would be this:

Let your ‘no’ be a real ‘no’ and your ‘yes’ be a real ‘yes’.


You don’t have to say ‘yes’ to every holiday party invite. Feel free to exercise your right to say ‘no’ without an explanation. Be OK with disappointing some people.

Take some time NOW to meditate on how YOUR ideal holiday season would play out. What would make it enjoyable and meaningful for you?

The answer to this question will be different for everyone, ranging from making baked goods for the important people in their lives instead of buying gifts, to going on a solo-vacation to an exotic location rather than be with family, or planning ahead to do all of your holiday shopping online instead going out into the mayhem that is any mall or shopping center in December.

Whatever the answers are for you, when you show up and take action from this place of authenticity rather than self-abandoning out of fear of being judged by others (family, friends, co-workers, etc.), you are standing in your power. AND, nothing is sexier or more attractive than a woman in her power.

Need help getting clarity on YOUR holiday values and setting boundaries? I’m here for you and I can help. Book a FREE Luscious, Lasting Love Breakthrough Session with me here.

Have a beautiful week and keep shining!

All my love and gratitude,

Heather xoxo


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