Ewww!!! Why Is She With That Guy?

Hey there, gorgeous!

Ever been a bad relationship? I certainly have. At my lowest point, I dated a man who was emotionally abusive for over a year.

As painful as this experience was, it was one of the best learning experiences of my life.

It was valuable because this relationship, the presence of this miserable, angry, and lost person, was a reflection of how I felt about myself.

You see, like attracts like. I attracted this man into my life, a man who didn’t respect or value me, because I didn’t respect or value myself.

His harsh words and actions were a manifestation of what I said and did to myself. At my core, I didn’t believe I deserved to be happy. I didn’t think I was good enough. It was a BIG wake-up call.

Since then, I’ve dated a number of other men who were wonderful people, but not quite right. However, each relationship reflected where I was energetically at the time and served as powerful opportunities to fill out my vision of my ideal relationship.

Glennon Doyle, author of “Love Warrior” writes that,

“some loves are perennials—they survive the winter and bloom again. Other loves are annuals—beautiful and lush and full for a season and then back to the earth to die and create richer soil for new life to grow. The eventual result of both types of plants is New Life...Nothing wasted. No failure. Love never fails. Never, never. Love is messy and beautiful and brutal – and Love is the whole point.”

Looking back to that very unhealthy relationship, I also learned to never judge another person for being in what you perceive to be a “bad relationship”.

Again, the Law of Attraction (like attracts like) always brings the perfect people into our lives at the perfect time to teach us the lessons we need to learn on our soul’s journey.

Today, I’m in my dream love relationship with a man who is everything I ever wanted and more.

However, it was a process to get here. Every relationship I’ve been in along the way was anecessary step to get to where I am today. I have absolutely no regrets and immensegratitude for each experience.

So, if you keep attracting partners who aren’t quite right, don’t lose hope. However, be open to the lessons each experience has to offer you. Be open to the wisdom of the universe and take it to refine your vision of your ideal relationship.

When your vision is clear and you’re REALLY ready, the relationship will show up at the perfect time and in the perfect way. Trust me - I know! It happened to me.

Are you ready to activate your creative genius to design your dream love relationship?  If so, I warmly invite you to book a FREE 30-Minute coaching sessionwith me here.

I hope this serves you.

All my love and gratitude,

Heather xoxo

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